Surrogacy For Gay Men
Surrogacy for Gay Men
Gay men have unique needs and opportunities when seeking parenthood. At Pinnacle Surrogacy, we are distinctively qualified to serve the gay community given our comprehensive gay surrogacy and egg donation program. We integrate world-class medical care with an in-house egg donor and surrogacy agency. Our patient-sensitive approach allows for highly efficient and confidential cycle coordination and greatly improves the likelihood of a successful surrogate pregnancy for gay men.
Fertility options for gay men
Same-sex family building options for gay men include a variety of options that can be seamlessly managed by our team in-house. With donated eggs, sperm from one or both partners, and a surrogate (the woman who carries the pregnancy), we help patients achieve the dream of parenthood.
Egg donor for gay couples and individuals
At Pinnacle Surrogacy, we offer a comprehensive egg donation program, with our own in-house egg donor agency and frozen donor egg bank. Unlike many outside agencies, egg donors at Pinnacle Surrogacy are pre-screened and ready for their egg donation cycle, which allows immediate matching and timely completion of cycles. Having egg donors medically cleared to donate their eggs also helps avoid disappointment in a situation when a chosen donor fails medical clearance and cannot donate. Many of our egg donors are proven, having undergone prior successful egg donations at Pinnacle. You can view full egg donor profiles in our online egg donor database at your convenience.
Gay surrogacy agency – Pinnacle Surrogacy
At Pinnacle Surrogacy, we also have our own surrogacy agency that supports gay men. Pinnacle Surrogacy houses a nationwide pool of readily available surrogates. With most outside surrogacy agencies, the process of matching a surrogate with the intended parent(s) is the first step in their surrogacy journey. Once matched, the surrogate must still undergo extensive medical and psychological screening and may fail to qualify as a surrogate. This will require the intended parents to start the whole process over.
In contrast, at Pinnacle Surrogacy, we pre-screen all of our surrogacy candidates making sure they are cleared by a Fertility Specialist, a High-Risk Obstetrician and a Psychologist. In addition, a qualified Medical Social Worker conducts a home review to ensure that the living environment of the surrogate is safe and supportive of a pregnancy. Many of our surrogates have completed prior surrogacy journeys and hope to help another couple or individual realize their dream of parenthood again. Throughout this journey, our teams at Pinnacle Surrogacy stay closely engaged with both surrogate and intended parents to help provide a smooth transition from fertility care to obstetric and postpartum care. This integrated approach has been welcomed by many of our gay surrogacy clients who prefer the personal relationship of working with one team rather than a multitude of agencies, doctors and attorneys.
Directed donor screening of father(s)
Since the embryo will ultimately be transferred to a surrogate, the FDA requires that sperm providers be screened for infectious diseases within 7 days of giving sperm. This includes a questionnaire, a physical examination and blood tests for STIs such as Hepatitis, HIV and Syphilis among others. At Pinnacle Surrogacy, we make the directed donor screening process quick and easy by performing all tests at one visit. Sperm frozen within 7 days of performing these tests becomes “qualified” and can be used at any time in the future.
Fertility services for men with HIV
At Pinnacle Surrogacy, we are committed to improving the reproductive care of men with HIV. We continue to investigate the effects of HIV on sperm in hopes of assuring good outcomes and healthy children. You can learn more about our surrogacy services for men with HIV here.
Gay-friendly surrogacy and egg donation agency
With a state-of-the-art fertility clinics and labs, an in-house egg donor program and a surrogacy agency for gay men, our team at Pinnacle Surrogacy has the expertise to make your family-building journey as seamless as possible. If you are ready to start your journey to parenthood, or just have questions and want to speak to someone who can help, contact us or call us at 877 261 0392.
We also encourage you to review our site for information about surrogacy costs, surrogacy success rates and more.
Egg Donation & Surrogacy Process for Gay Men
The process of becoming a father may be more complex if you are a gay man, but it doesn’t have to be complicated. You’ll experience an all-inclusive service in our state-of-the-art fertility clinic, onsite IVF laboratory, an in-house egg donor, and surrogacy programs. With years of success in helping build families for gay patients, you can rest assured you are in the right place.
As a gay man having a child, what exactly happens between calling us and holding your newborn in your arms?
We make the gay surrogacy process easy to understand. Follow the main steps of your journey to parenthood below.
Speak to Our Patient Coordinator
Our patient coordinator will be your initial point of contact in your surrogacy process; she will answer all the questions you may have and guide you through the whole process of becoming a dad. She will assist you with choosing the egg donor and surrogate who meet your needs and requirements best.
Egg donor for gay couples and individuals
Everyone’s path to parenthood is different.
During your consultation, one of our specialist doctors will help you determine what your unique path looks like. Our in-house fertility specialist can speak with you in person or over the telephone and help you determine the next steps of your journey.
Choose Your Egg Donor
Next, you will review our egg donor database. The database contains everything you need to know about our donors, including their medical history, physical traits, and even personal statements from the donors themselves.
After reviewing the database, you will select and secure a donor. We will work with her and plan her donation cycle to retain the number of eggs needed to build your family.
Undergo Directed Donor Screening
Of course, both an egg and sperm are needed to create a baby.
After choosing your egg donor, we will work with you to ensure your sperm is tested and ready for fertilization. This process consists of a questionnaire and a physical exam.
The physical exam will include a blood test to check for any infectious diseases. Your semen will also be analyzed and possibly frozen.
Plan The Egg Donation Cycle
From here, we will assign you a nurse coordinator who will be your main point of contact.
The nurse coordinator will work with both you and the egg donor to plan her egg donation cycle and egg retrieval. You will provide a semen specimen on the day of egg retrieval unless you are using previously frozen semen.
Fertilize The Eggs
After harvesting eggs from your donor, we will fertilize the eggs with your sperm in the lab to create embryos.
Our team can use one or more sources of sperm in the event that both partners want to be biological fathers.
Incubate The Embryos
The embryos will be incubated in the fertility lab to ensure that they are good candidates for implantation. If you wish, our team can also test the eggs for sex and chromosomal normalcy.
Freeze The Embryos
After incubation, our team will freeze the viable embryos to save them for future transfer.
Freezing embryos is not harmful. Frozen embryos will last for years, giving you the flexibility to grow your family on your own timeline. If more than 1 embryo is available, you have the opportunity to have siblings in the future if desired.
Choose a Surrogate
The next step will be to choose your surrogate – the woman who will carry your baby to term.
Our team will help you go through our available surrogate profiles so you can identify your perfect match. We will then arrange a match meeting between you and your surrogate. The match meeting is a great opportunity to get to know each other, ask any questions you both have, and ensure she is the right fit for your surrogacy journey.
Make Legal Agreements
After making and confirming your selection, you will execute the legal agreement with the surrogate.
These documents protect both parties during the pregnancy and will make sure you have legal protection at all times during your surrogacy journey. You have the option of choosing your own attorney or picking from our recommended experienced surrogacy lawyers.
Get Ready For Embryo Transfer
Once the legal agreement is signed, we will work with you and your surrogate to plan her cycle and schedule a date for the embryo transfer.
Follow the Surrogate Pregnancy
After the transfer, you will follow your surrogate’s pregnancy.
The pregnancy will be monitored for the first 10 weeks by our fertility clinic and for the remainder of the pregnancy (and delivery) by the surrogate’s obstetrician.
You will be part of your surrogate’s pregnancy journey. Depending on your agreement with the surrogate and your surrogacy contract, you may be attending her medical appointments, ultrasounds, and getting regular updates all the way to the delivery of your baby.
It All Starts With a Phone Call
If you are ready to take the first step toward parenthood, or if you just have questions about egg donation and the surrogacy process for gay individuals and couples, we have the expertise and experience to help.
Call our surrogacy coordinators at 877 261 0392 or fill out this form to contact us.
Family Building for Gay Men FAQs
How does the surrogacy process work for gay men?
- Our team shares profiles of surrogates who best match your needs.
- Once you choose a surrogate, our team arranges a video or in-person meeting so that both parties have a chance to meet to determine compatibility.
- After a successful matching, both parties complete a legal agreement with the help of attorney representation.
- After the legal agreement is complete, the surrogate can undergo an embryo transfer. Our surrogates are all prescreened and can undergo embryo transfer shortly after all agreements are in place.
We are a male gay couple. Who will be the biological father if we use a surrogate?
Both members of a gay couple can provide sperm and become the biological father. Fertility clinics typically split donor eggs 50/50 between both fathers so that both men can create embryos.
At times, gay couples may choose to have only one partner as the biological father. Gay couples might make this choice for personal reasons or due to the quality of sperm as assessed by the semen analysis
Can you choose the gender of your baby when using a surrogate?
Sperm determines the sex of the baby. Unfortunately, despite years of research, no viable method exists to sex-select sperm.
Instead, embryologists perform sex selection by testing embryos derived from a donor egg using Preimplantation Genetic Screening (PGT-A) screening. With this technique, embryologists remove cells from a 5-day-old embryo and send the cells to a lab for genetic analysis.
The analysis reveals the sex of the embryo and whether the embryo is normal. Usually, if there is a sufficient number of embryos tested, there will be embryos of both sexes.
What is the cut-off age for surrogacy for gay men?
There is no set cut-off age for gay surrogacy. However, individuals and couples must undergo psychological screening.
This screening helps ensure that the individual or couple understands the challenges they may encounter as an older parent and topics related to child welfare. These topics include the importance of maintaining a support network of family and friends who can help care for the child in the event of the parents’ disability or death.
How can two men each have a biological baby?
For both male partners to each have a biological baby, each partner needs to provide sperm to fertilize a separate egg.
Typically, embryologists split the number of donor eggs 50/50 between the male partners so that both partners can create embryos. Clinicians can then transfer one embryo created from the sperm of each partner to one or two surrogates.
Some gay male couples choose to have twins, while others decide to have their children sequentially, which is possible by freezing embryos for future use.
Can one child have two biological fathers?
No. A child cannot have two biological fathers. Only one sperm cell from one male fertilizes a donor egg.
How can you have twins with two different biological dads?
Both partners can provide sperm and become biological fathers using gay couple surrogacy. In this case, each father is the biological father of one of the two children.
Typically, embryologists split the number of donor eggs 50/50 between each male partner. Our clinicians can then transfer one embryo from the sperm of each partner to a surrogate. Couples can select the sex of each child through Preimplantation Genetic Screening (PGT-A).
Who are the people involved in gay men surrogacy?
Unlike most fertility centers, Pinnacle Surrogacy has in-house egg donor and surrogacy agencies.
We provide all the medical treatments our prescreened egg donors and surrogates need. Secondly, our team continuously supports patients throughout the surrogate pregnancy and childbirth. This integrated approach allows us to provide a comprehensive and seamless experience for our parents-to-be, egg donors, and surrogates.
We are a male gay couple and we both want to be biological dads. What is the solution?
Both male partners can be biological dads. However, male partners cannot be the biological dads of the same child. Only one sperm cell fertilizes each egg.
For each male partner to be a biological dad, each male partner will need to fertilize a separate egg with his sperm. The male gay couple can then have twins with the same surrogate or have each child sequentially.
I have HIV. Can I still have a healthy biological child?
Pinnacle Surrogacy offers comprehensive fertility care to men with HIV who have undetectable viral levels.
We provide prescreened egg donors, surrogates, and all the medical treatment necessary for a healthy surrogate pregnancy. Our Pinnacle Fertility clinics have the capabilities to properly wash sperm and prevent HIV transmission to the surrogate and baby. Follow this link to our page dedicated to family building for HIV+ men to learn more.
Do I choose an egg donor or a surrogate first?
After our clinicians ensure that your semen analysis and infectious disease tests are normal, you select an egg donor.
Our team then retrieves the donor eggs and creates and freezes the embryos. Parents-to-be can select a surrogate either while the egg donor undergoes the IVF cycle or after our embryologists create and freeze the embryos.
Do I need to choose a surrogate and an egg donor who lives in the same state as me?
No. Our team can work with egg donors remotely and have them travel to Pinnacle Surrogacy clinics to have their eggs retrieved. We work with surrogates from states with surrogacy-friendly laws. While it is not necessary to choose a surrogate from the state you live in, it may be easier for you to attend obstetric appointments and the birth if you live nearby.
For more answers to questions about surrogacy, click here to view our surrogacy FAQs.